Posted on Jan 03, 2014
Posted in Engaged, Vendors

So the holidays are barely over and you are staring at your lovely engagement ring. This won’t be that post about what to do first. There are so many planners out there blogging about first steps to take. Not me! I can wait for your business 30 days from now when it all starts to pile on and you went to that HUMONGOUS bridal show.  I want you to go get a fresh manicure and then set up regular appointments for the next 3 months.  Once you get engaged it is day after day of showing off your beautiful new ring.  I want to see it every time I meet a newly engaged bride.  I literally want to see it so if you instagram, tag me so I can ooh and ahh over it. (@regalaffair)

Enjoy these first weeks and all the attention your ring will get but goodness make sure your nails are done. For local San Antonio area brides my new favorite nail person is Priscilla of The Vanity Room. Her Instagram is full of pretty images AND she is also recently engaged planning her wedding. I love chatting with her about wedding stuff so I know new brides will feel a connection and she will appreciate your excitement and anxiety as these weddings are quite the task to pull off.  The pictures below are just my nails.

The Vanity Room

Inside JC Salons

11703 Huebner Road, Ste 201

San Antonio, Texas 78230

By Appointment only


IMG_20140102_173952[1]  IMG_20131218_141405[1]  IMG_20131202_172051[1]   And yes! I totally want you to call me when you feel you might need the services of a wedding planner.



Posted on Dec 22, 2011
Posted in Wedding Tips

"He did good"

The flurry of engagements at this time of year makes us in the industry excited… For you and for us!  The engagement season of 2011-12 is especially exciting for me as my cousin asked his long time girl friend to marry.  I am also patiently awaiting the engagement of three other close friends.  There have also been some social media friends very recently engaged… from Thanksgiving to this past weekend.  Turning out to be a bright 2012 for my young friends.

So here is my first free tip to the newly engaged.  No.. I’m going to give you a break on the money talk.  You all know you need to have the budget talk among yourselves and the parents.  One of the first tasks you really should consider completing is making your guest list.  Now you ask? Yes, Now.  Depending on the size of the list and realistic expectations of who will actually attend may factor into booking your dream reception venue.

Think about it: you want this gorgeous downtown historic venue. It holds a perfect 100 but can accommodate 140. You send 150 invites – yikes! That is the equivalent of 300 people. Depending on the time of year, sufficient notice and frankly family / friend connections you could have 300.  I had 400 and I couldn’t believe it.

So take a deep breath, make your first draft and then let’s start taking venue tours. Good luck and congratulations to the newly engaged!

Image from Ashton Teal (a social media friend) She tweeted: Wow. I’m in love. He did good.